Right I agree with men's responsibility. My point is that if we either A) have legal abortion or B) are advocating for legal abortion beyond just rape and life of the mother, we are essentially allowing women to not just AVOID the consequences of casual sex, but to IGNORE the consequences once they happen and not be forced to take responsibility for them. If the woman has the right to walk away from an unplanned pregnancy, a man should to.

But don't let this confuse you, my position is neither the woman nor the man should have the right to walk away. And I do think that men should take responsibility and stop having casual sex. And I do think that women should take responsibility and stop having casual sex.

And I think you're right, it is harder on the woman even if they both decide to walk away. That's why women should be extra careful about casual sex. I think our society would be in a much better place if we acknowledged that the losers of casual sex are almost everyone: Women, children, and good men (who are not having casual sex) all lose. Bad men are the big winners. It's the worst set up imaginable yet it seems like no one wants to condemn it for fear they'll be accused of being a puritan or something.